Dealing with my F.O.M.O
I did not know what FOMO was until few years ago when I was coaching someone younger than me. She described her stress and anxiety as FOMO. I did not make much out it.
It was not until last year, during a session with my teacher/mentor that this came up. I realized that my need to always do, achieve more, being busy was coming from that childhood fear and it was not working for me or my success. That fear was that Life was passing by every day and I was "stuck" in a room, doing nothing important or fun.
"Veto" your own narratives from the past.
After coaching consistently for 8 years and studying psychology and what brings us happiness obsessively, I realized that the core of human suffering is the false belief that "I am not good enough and never will be."
Why is that? That no matter what many of us accomplish, achieve or others tell us that we are great, we still feel " I am no good".